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Hey there!

Before I start, I wanna ask one question to y’all.

Have you felt hurt or jealous because your friends are ahead of you (AND I NEED HONEST ANSWERS!) ?

If you honestly think, even a tiny bit “yes” then you’re at the right place. Continue on reading, else you may ignore this one.

If you ever felt jealous of anyone, its because you feel insufficient. You feel as though you don’t have enough. It can be for materialistic things like a car/bungalow or maybe non materialistic stuff like respect/love etc. But you know what? I believe that being jealous is the worst thing you can do to yourself. As by being jealous, you’re actually giving your mind negativity. A ton of negativity. This will slowly make your thinking negative and instead of being all enthusiastic, you start procrastinating and spending a lot more time than you realize thinking about your “peers”, instead of actually working for your goals.

The second thing you should know is, the timeline and societal standards we are asked to live up to, are all useless. These people of the society who make you feel as though you’ve not done enough are as guilty as you are. How? Well you oblige to what they say and do as they want. Seriously? If you ever want anything in you’re life then stop giving a damn about what people say. ‘Cause they’re always gonna say. Besides we all live in different circumstances, even if you’re twins, you still have differences. The members of the same family are a hell lot different. They have the same blood, yet they’re different. Then how on earth can you compare yourself to your peers? They live in different circumstances and avail different opportunities and face different challenges. You practically know nothing about your so called “peers”. You all have differences and yet you compete with each other.

Now I want to put this very clearly, You live in your own timeline and you’re not supposed to follow any other timeline which the society has set up.

There’s no freaking need to be disappointed or jealous because your friends or peers are ahead of you because you know nothing about them even if they claim to be transparent and tell you everything. There are living in their circumstances and their timeline and you’re living in yours.

{Give my Instagram account a visit to know in advance about the topics about which I’ll write.}

arushisinhablogg

Thanks for reading!

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8 Comments Add yours

  1. This is so true πŸ’―πŸ‘Œ

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    1. Arushi says:

      Thanks man! I think you understand it well though. Right? πŸ˜€

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    1. Arushi says:

      Thanks. (ikr)😁

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  2. I agree. I think bc of social media that it compounds the need to compare yourself w/ others. It’s best to just work on yourself and you’ll get to where you need to be.

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    1. Arushi says:

      Totally agreed, I really appreciate that you get my mindset!

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  3. Anita Bacha says:

    It’s always a pleasure reading you Arushi.

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    1. Arushi says:

      I’m glad you feel that way! 😍

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